little confuse

last night we had a fight,it was tiring because were havin an argue on the same thing over and over,
i just don’t understand why she was jealous with my friends, yes i know i promise her that we will watch a movie with my friends who also happened to be her friends and afterwards were not goin with them ( bar hopping after movie )
but then it didn’t came the way we planned, majority choose not to watch movie , instead just go bar hoping, so thats what happen, she and i went out with them,
first stop ( temple )i thought everything was runnin smoothly, coz i can she she’s enjoyin it, i was just surprised when i went to wash room, when i came back, she’s gone, she simply texted me that she wanna go home coz she’s not feelin well, i replied, i told her to come back, and she said she was already in a cab, and dont worry about her, i even ask her whats wrong , what i did wrong ,she said im not doin anythin wrong, she said she was just not feelin well, and dont worry about her, she even end her text with i love you,
so all the while i thought everything was OK,we went to another bar , and not more than half hour i received a text from her saying that she would like to see me on the coffee shop and she’s still in the area, so i went out to see herand not realizing she’s mad,we had a huge argument, again she’s jealous with our friends, i don’t understand why,so we talked i told her that we can go home , but she insist i should go back to our friends, but i also insist not to go back, just to calm her,
but shes insist that we should go back, while havin an arguesomeone texted her, and i saw the name paolo, but when i was about to read it, she simply deleted it, when i ask who the hell texted her , she said it was jona askin us to go back inside ( absinth )
but i saw it clearly its not jona, i saw clearly the name was paolo, and i told her that i saw it came from paolo, she said yes its her classmate ,simply text her good morning, gud morning is just a short text, but what i saw is a long text.
\nshes now startin to hide somethin from me\nso we settle inside ( absinth ) for not to ruin the night, we just acted in front of our friends that were OK\nand just cant see any reason why shes jealous, when she got all my time, and to think my friends is her friends too.\niwas really pretty much bothered, i dont know what to think, our relationship is in not so well situation.\nso.. i did borrow her mobile phone, and i found all her sent items to paolo. saying "take care", "im here" of course i dont wanna jump into a conclusion, i wanna give her a benefit of a doubt, but the i jsut cant see any good reason why she have to hide from me what is that paolo texting her\nso we settled, i acted normal for the sake of one of my friends who asked us to go out because , she too having truobles with her hubby.\nafter that, while with her goin home we started arguin again, i tried too much undertanding her,i told her my apology even i dont understand why shes actin that way.she cried , i cried.and the funny thing is we ended hugging each other.\nbut i know that doesnt stop there, she would still be jealous and always will be, so i just have to go along on what she want , to save our relationship, i love her so much,, and i dont know what to do if i lose her.\nbut then i was really bothered with that text from paolo, and one of my common friend told me she saw my GF malling , hanging out with other guy, a one good lookin guy, she with other guy , no one else but just the two of them, and she never told me that\nand evrytime i ask her about paolo, she get irrated, seems that shes avoising the issues, but i cant do anythin coz i dont want us to argue.i was just bothered why would that guy text her at 2 am, if that guy is some juts classmate, and why would she kept it from me.\ni really dont know what to think now.i dont know what to do...\ncan somebody pls.. tell me what to do",1]
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shes now startin to hide somethin from me
so we settle inside ( absinth ) for not to ruin the night, we just acted in front of our friends that were OK
and just cant see any reason why she’s jealous, when she got all my time, and to think my friends is her friends too.
I was really pretty much bothered, i don’t know what to think, our relationship is in not so well situation.
so.. i did borrow her mobile phone, and i found all her sent items to paolo. saying "take care", "im here" of course i dont wanna jump into a conclusion, i wanna give her a benefit of a doubt, but the i just cant see any good reason why she have to hide from me what is that paolo texting her
so we settled, i acted normal for the sake of one of my friends who asked us to go out because , she too having troubles with her hubby.
after that, while with her goin home we started arguing again, i tried too much understanding her,i told her my apology even i don’t understand why she’s actin that way.she cried , i cried. and the funny thing is we ended hugging each other.
but i know that doesn’t stop there, she would still be jealous and always will be, so i just have to go along on what she want , to save our relationship, i love her so much,, and i dont know what to do if i lose her.
but then i was really bothered with that text from paolo, and one of my common friend told me she saw my GF malling , hanging out with other guy, a one good lookin guy, she with other guy , no one else but just the two of them, and she never told me that
and evrytime i ask her about paolo, she get irrated, seems that shes avoising the issues, but i cant do anythin coz i don’t want us to argue.i was just bothered why would that guy text her at 2 am, if that guy is some juts classmate, and why would she kept it from me.
i really don’t know what to think now.i don’t know what to do...
can somebody pls.. tell me what to do , i dont wanna loose her"